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17th-Sep-2005 10:50 pm
After another person defriended me without explanation (although I can make assumptions here as well since said person is friends with the last defriend person), I'm making an offer to everyone reading this.

Yeah, I don't like losing friends. But, if you don't want me on your friends list for whatever reason, comment here with "defriend me" and I will remove you with no questions asked, and my best wishes on your life. Now is your golden opportunity before I start doing maintenance. This will also save me time, since my eyesight is getting bad and I have trouble comparing my friend and friend of list trying to figure out which one of you removed me this time.

You have until Monday evening, mainly because I know most folks don't read/post on Sunday and I'm also going to be very busy Sunday with work and choir.
18th-Sep-2005 03:20 am (UTC)
Keep me on your list chum!

Frick the lamers!
18th-Sep-2005 03:23 am (UTC)
The irony here is that not long after you friended me, I figured you'd defriend me;)
18th-Sep-2005 03:31 am (UTC)
Fooled you.
18th-Sep-2005 03:33 am (UTC)
Ah Dark Helmet live;)
18th-Sep-2005 03:34 am (UTC)
ehhh... being defriended doesnt bother me really...

18th-Sep-2005 03:36 am (UTC)
The only reason it's bugging me at all is due to knowing the recent deletions in RL. Which LJ is kind of acting as an avatar for at the moment.
18th-Sep-2005 03:43 am (UTC)
IRL ones dont really bother me either... I'm pretty much a social loner anyway...
18th-Sep-2005 03:47 am (UTC)
Eh, I can understand that. It's just something along the lines of just starting to develop more of a social life, and now all this new shit came up. I'm beginning to remember why I quit socializing in the first place.
18th-Sep-2005 04:21 am (UTC)
Yep... if I allowed myself to get dragged into goign to the bars and shit with the gang like I used to I would so be caught up in all that drama that Id just as soon avoid...

Had one guy on my flist in the beginning (he was actually one of the 8 members of our polyfi family) who defriended me after I put up this line on my info page to the effect of "I defreind those who continually write about their depression over and over"

I think he wanted to be the first to defriend...
18th-Sep-2005 04:22 am (UTC)
LOL I'm trying hard to keep the worst of the whining private.
18th-Sep-2005 04:54 am (UTC)
It's only when sad vs. happy posts = 80% to 20% or so... (respectively)

I get down too but I try to refrain from posting about it - instead I work on multi-tracking (you'll see soon... it's almost ready...)
18th-Sep-2005 02:05 pm (UTC)
18th-Sep-2005 03:42 am (UTC)
You know my motto:Fuck 'em they can't take a joke; joke 'em if they can't take a fuck.
*giggle* I don't know if 'defriend' is an actual word, and I'm not sure what you're saying here, but I think your challenge is pretty clearly not meant for me anyway.
18th-Sep-2005 03:45 am (UTC)
Defriend (d-frend): v: To remove someone from one's list of LiveJournal friends.
18th-Sep-2005 03:57 am (UTC)
Ah... but how is that different from UNfriending?

18th-Sep-2005 03:59 am (UTC)
Same basic meaning in both prefixes, although unfriending to me sounds klunky and makes it sound like I have unfriends, who like to rise from the grave and eat brains.
18th-Sep-2005 04:04 am (UTC)
LOL I don't know about you, but I have several unfriends. They are the people who make my enemies seem like pleasant company, because at least the enemies are honest about how they really feel.

I, personally, like the term iffriend. It's the proper way to form a negation of the word friend. It means "someone who is not on my friends list and on whose friends list I do not appear".
18th-Sep-2005 04:14 am (UTC)
Keep your enemies close and your friends closer...
18th-Sep-2005 02:28 pm (UTC)
For some reason, the thought of unfriends rising from the grave and eating brains really tickled my funny bone this morning.
18th-Sep-2005 08:21 pm (UTC)
LOL, glad to hear I can still make people laugh:)
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